Nicole is growing up soo much! She does the cutest stuff these days. She is so smart and I just love her to pieces.
She has started saying "bye bye" when she knows it is time to leave. She does this when Shaun is getting ready to leave in the morning, when we are getting her into her carseat, when I drop her off at daycare (even though I'm not ready to leave), and when we leave daycare. She does it best when nobody says it to her first. It is so cute. She also blows butterfly kisses. I had been doing this since I started dropping her off at daycare and she must have just learned it one day. She even makes the smacking sound when her hand is at her mouth before she blows the kiss. It really melts my heart.
She is standing up on her own now for longer periods of time. She has been sort of standing for awhile, but she only does it when you are right there. Now she gets up on her own and looks around for a bit.
She took some steps on her own the other night. She loves to walk with our fingers everywhere. It is so cute, but she just doesn't want to stop. One night Shaun and I were passing her back and forth from my fingers to his. Then we separated a little more and she had to fill the gap walking without our hands and she did it. She repeated a few times. I think it is a confidence issue. She holds onto our fingers so tight and won't let go. This night she let go because she knew the other person would catch her. I don't think she gets a lot of practice like this at daycare, so it may still be awhile before she does more, but I'm okay with it taking a little longer. Once she starts walking, we are in big trouble :)
Roxy has become protective of her. We have been dog sitting this week and she does not like the other dog too close to Nicole. The first night, it was a little crazy with all of them on the floor, but it has settled down over the week. Nicole tells the dogs "no" when they get in her face and she doesn't want to play. It is kind of funny because she looks like she is really annoyed with them when she says it. They seem to understand it, too.
We went and got her 1st Birthday pics done last weekend. She was so good for them. Luckily, she had a great nap beforehand, so she was well rested and she was her cheerful self. I can't wait to share the results. I can't believe her birthday is less than 10 days away. This time last year, I was telling people she would probably be late because there was no sign of her coming. Of course, she surprised me as she always does!
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Sleep
Many of you know that Nicole has never really been a good sleeper. When we first got her home from the hospital, she would only sleep for any substantial amount of time if we were holding her. Shaun and I took turns sleeping on the couch with her on our chest for a few weeks. Then we were able to transition her to sleeping in her pack n' play next to the bed and eventually we got her to her crib. Then we moved...sigh...that was the end of that.
When we first moved into the hotel in Germany, she would only sleep 30 minutes in the pack n' play and I ended up bringing her into bed with me, so we could both get some sleep. We have been co-sleeping ever since. Co-sleeping isn't a bad thing (although many people will tell you it is and that it is a terrible habit to start). Well it worked for us for awhile. We spent so much time in transition between houses, that we were able to both get some much needed sleep. I've always known that I would need to transition her back to the crib, but I was really worried about it. Everyone kept telling me how hard it was going to be to do since we had started co-sleeping. I read all the sleep books...No-Cry Sleep Solution, Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Child, The Sleep Easy Solution, and I've started another one by Dr. Ferber on sleep problems. Well a month ago, I heard about the Sleep Easy Solution and decided I would read yet another book. That one had a DVD as well. (Note: The DVD is super appealing because that helps me get Shaun on board. As with the Happiest Baby on the Block DVD, it got him up to speed on the methods we were going with without him having to read the book.) We watched it a few weeks ago and I was ready to start. The Cliff Notes version of the method is: Step 1: Follow nighttime routine doing the same things in the same order each night to signal that it is bedtime. Step 2: Lay baby in crib awake (essential, so that baby learns to fall asleep in the crib rather than in your arms. Step 3: Say goodnight and leave (despite crying). Step 4: If crying persists, go and check in 5 minutes. Reassure her with kind words and without touching, then leave within 30 seconds. Step 4: If crying persists, do the same thing at 10 minutes, then repeat every 15 minutes after that until sleeping. When I was pregnant and for the first 6 months or so, I had said I would not do the CIO (cry it out) method because I had read the negatives about it. This is a modified CIO.
Well Nicole was apparently really ready for this transition because 3 nights in and she is already sleeping like a champ. Night 1: The total time took 43 minutes. Night 2, the total time was 16 (without any checks because she had calmed herself down and didn't need me going in and upsetting her). Night 3, the total time was 13 minutes. She is out like a light. She still wakes once to eat, but then falls back asleep. I hate to be so optimistic that all our sleep issues are solved, but this is significant progress and I'm super excited about it. Once the doc says we can night wean her, we will cut out that feeding (he said to keep it up until her weight increases a little more, if she wants to).
Reflecting on the process, I'm disappointed that I didn't start it sooner. It bothers me that I let other people's judgment and "advice" scare me into avoiding this process. I'm a little sad that my little cuddle bug doesn't need me to get to sleep anymore, but I know we are both better off this way. My advice to others, "do what works best for you in your situation." Co-sleeping worked for us and it didn't do "permanent damage" to her as some people told me it would if I let it go on too long. To my friends that have been so supportive through this process, thank you. Hopefully in a few weeks, I will no longer be the walking zombie that I have become due to lack of sleep :oP
When we first moved into the hotel in Germany, she would only sleep 30 minutes in the pack n' play and I ended up bringing her into bed with me, so we could both get some sleep. We have been co-sleeping ever since. Co-sleeping isn't a bad thing (although many people will tell you it is and that it is a terrible habit to start). Well it worked for us for awhile. We spent so much time in transition between houses, that we were able to both get some much needed sleep. I've always known that I would need to transition her back to the crib, but I was really worried about it. Everyone kept telling me how hard it was going to be to do since we had started co-sleeping. I read all the sleep books...No-Cry Sleep Solution, Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Child, The Sleep Easy Solution, and I've started another one by Dr. Ferber on sleep problems. Well a month ago, I heard about the Sleep Easy Solution and decided I would read yet another book. That one had a DVD as well. (Note: The DVD is super appealing because that helps me get Shaun on board. As with the Happiest Baby on the Block DVD, it got him up to speed on the methods we were going with without him having to read the book.) We watched it a few weeks ago and I was ready to start. The Cliff Notes version of the method is: Step 1: Follow nighttime routine doing the same things in the same order each night to signal that it is bedtime. Step 2: Lay baby in crib awake (essential, so that baby learns to fall asleep in the crib rather than in your arms. Step 3: Say goodnight and leave (despite crying). Step 4: If crying persists, go and check in 5 minutes. Reassure her with kind words and without touching, then leave within 30 seconds. Step 4: If crying persists, do the same thing at 10 minutes, then repeat every 15 minutes after that until sleeping. When I was pregnant and for the first 6 months or so, I had said I would not do the CIO (cry it out) method because I had read the negatives about it. This is a modified CIO.
Well Nicole was apparently really ready for this transition because 3 nights in and she is already sleeping like a champ. Night 1: The total time took 43 minutes. Night 2, the total time was 16 (without any checks because she had calmed herself down and didn't need me going in and upsetting her). Night 3, the total time was 13 minutes. She is out like a light. She still wakes once to eat, but then falls back asleep. I hate to be so optimistic that all our sleep issues are solved, but this is significant progress and I'm super excited about it. Once the doc says we can night wean her, we will cut out that feeding (he said to keep it up until her weight increases a little more, if she wants to).
Reflecting on the process, I'm disappointed that I didn't start it sooner. It bothers me that I let other people's judgment and "advice" scare me into avoiding this process. I'm a little sad that my little cuddle bug doesn't need me to get to sleep anymore, but I know we are both better off this way. My advice to others, "do what works best for you in your situation." Co-sleeping worked for us and it didn't do "permanent damage" to her as some people told me it would if I let it go on too long. To my friends that have been so supportive through this process, thank you. Hopefully in a few weeks, I will no longer be the walking zombie that I have become due to lack of sleep :oP
Friday, February 18, 2011
Pictures
Nicole has really enjoyed the sunshine these past weekends.
Here she is getting ready for her first bike ride!
Here she is knocked out during a long walk on a local trail.
I've also been taking her out to swing on her swing set. She really likes it, but she needs a toddler swing for her birthday.
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Here she is getting ready for her first bike ride!
Here she is knocked out during a long walk on a local trail.
I've also been taking her out to swing on her swing set. She really likes it, but she needs a toddler swing for her birthday.
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Catching up
I haven't updated this blog in awhile, but I keep meaning to. It just seems that so much is happening that I don't know where to start with an update. Nicole is 11 months today and I'm anxiously planning her birthday. We are going to have a party here at the house. I'd love it if all her family and our friends could be here to celebrate, but it is impossible to get everyone together from all over the place. I haven't lived near all of my family since I was five, so I'm pretty used to being away from them, but I hate that Nicole won't grow up close to her cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents. Oh well, it is what it is and we will make the best of it. This party is going to be lots of fun. I have her birthday pictures scheduled in a couple weeks, so that we will have the pictures in time for the party. I got her the cutest little birthday outfit. I can't wait for everyone to see it.
Nicole is such a little monkey. We have jokingly called her that for awhile, but now that she is really on the move, she is really earning the nickname. She isn't walking just yet on her own, but she wants to walk everywhere she goes. She just has to hold our hands. She is getting a little better at standing on her own for longer, but when she realizes she is doing it, she drops down to her knees. She climbs everything! EVERYTHING! We were looking out the back door yesterday waiting for Roxy and she starting "walking" up the door. She climbs all over us when we sit on the floor with her. She tries to climb in and out of the bathtub on her own. She has so much energy. I remember the first time we saw her in an ultrasound, we said she was "dancing." I don't think she has really stopped moving since.
The weather is starting to get warmer here and it is really beautiful! We went out and got a bike trailer that we can pull behind our bike. She LOVED it!! When we put her in, she just kept making this silly face. Once we started moving, she just looked around at everything and then started to make sounds with her mouth. As we were going over the bumps, she liked the way it sounded. I don't think she stopped making those noises until we were done. I can't wait to get her out on more rides. We've also dusted off the jogging stroller and we took her out for a 4-mile walk last weekend. It was such a nice day and she just passed out almost as soon as we started. The more I look at the picture, I wish somebody would push me around in stroller on a nice day, so I can take a nice long nap.
Nicole still isn't doing well with her sleep. She still needs Mommy to put her to sleep and she still wakes up a few times throughout the night to either eat or make sure I'm still there. I've been reading all the sleep books and I'm finally ready to start doing some sleep training. I'd like to have her falling asleep on her own by her birthday. Then I will finally get a good nights rest (at least I'm hoping I will).
I think this is a good update for now, hopefully I'll find more time to do this again soon.
I'll post pictures from my phone in a second blog post.
Nicole is such a little monkey. We have jokingly called her that for awhile, but now that she is really on the move, she is really earning the nickname. She isn't walking just yet on her own, but she wants to walk everywhere she goes. She just has to hold our hands. She is getting a little better at standing on her own for longer, but when she realizes she is doing it, she drops down to her knees. She climbs everything! EVERYTHING! We were looking out the back door yesterday waiting for Roxy and she starting "walking" up the door. She climbs all over us when we sit on the floor with her. She tries to climb in and out of the bathtub on her own. She has so much energy. I remember the first time we saw her in an ultrasound, we said she was "dancing." I don't think she has really stopped moving since.
The weather is starting to get warmer here and it is really beautiful! We went out and got a bike trailer that we can pull behind our bike. She LOVED it!! When we put her in, she just kept making this silly face. Once we started moving, she just looked around at everything and then started to make sounds with her mouth. As we were going over the bumps, she liked the way it sounded. I don't think she stopped making those noises until we were done. I can't wait to get her out on more rides. We've also dusted off the jogging stroller and we took her out for a 4-mile walk last weekend. It was such a nice day and she just passed out almost as soon as we started. The more I look at the picture, I wish somebody would push me around in stroller on a nice day, so I can take a nice long nap.
Nicole still isn't doing well with her sleep. She still needs Mommy to put her to sleep and she still wakes up a few times throughout the night to either eat or make sure I'm still there. I've been reading all the sleep books and I'm finally ready to start doing some sleep training. I'd like to have her falling asleep on her own by her birthday. Then I will finally get a good nights rest (at least I'm hoping I will).
I think this is a good update for now, hopefully I'll find more time to do this again soon.
I'll post pictures from my phone in a second blog post.
Saturday, January 1, 2011
1st Christmas
I have been so excited to celebrate Nicole's first Christmas! I had to hold myself back and not buy her everything I wanted for her. I know she doesn't need a bunch of toys. We've only been in our house for a little less than a month and this month has been really hectic getting everything settled, so we didn't get a tree put up until Christmas Eve. I'm glad we got it up though. It was fun to wake up on Christmas and go and open presents by it. Nicole and Roxy were both pretty overwhelmed by all the excitement. Nicole played with anything and everything. She loves her toys though. Here are some pictures of her playing with them.
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| Here Nicole is hanging out by the Christmas Tree. We just painted the walls this color. |
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| Nicole helping Daddy open his stocking |
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| Nicole was crawling around and picked up a tail |
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| She loves this book. It is her friend Scout and he reads to her as she turns the pages |
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| Miss Krystal and Baby Jake reading Nicole her Christmas presents from them. |
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Thanksgiving (Part 2)
I can't believe I made a Thanksgiving post without posting a picture of Nicole with her Thanksgiving dress on. She looks so cute in it.
I've been trying to get her to try more foods, but she really doesn't like them much. On Thanksgiving I had to get her to try Turkey, so I mixed it with sweet potatoes. She did not like it at all. Here is a pic.
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| Gobble Gobble |
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Thanksgiving
There are so many things I'm thankful for this year. Especially my beautiful and healthy little Nicole!
Since we have been in Virginia, we have been in a hotel and Nicole hasn't really been sleeping very well. This has prevented us from traveling around to see all our family like we planned. We had grown really tired of the hotel though and decided we should probably get out of town for the week of Thanksgiving. We decided to go to IL. Nicole did awesome on the flight. She played on the first leg and then slept on the second leg. Then she slept the whole drive from St. Louis up to my Dad's house. It was a great day! I have a lot of family in IL and I wanted to see all of them. Nicole met so many people!
We had such a great week and Nicole was even good for the return flight. She even started teething while we were gone. She was really congested and I think we may have discovered she is allergic to cats. Despite all that, she was great and everyone she met fell in love with her. I love showing her off to people. Her smile just lights up the room.
Since we have been in Virginia, we have been in a hotel and Nicole hasn't really been sleeping very well. This has prevented us from traveling around to see all our family like we planned. We had grown really tired of the hotel though and decided we should probably get out of town for the week of Thanksgiving. We decided to go to IL. Nicole did awesome on the flight. She played on the first leg and then slept on the second leg. Then she slept the whole drive from St. Louis up to my Dad's house. It was a great day! I have a lot of family in IL and I wanted to see all of them. Nicole met so many people!
We had such a great week and Nicole was even good for the return flight. She even started teething while we were gone. She was really congested and I think we may have discovered she is allergic to cats. Despite all that, she was great and everyone she met fell in love with her. I love showing her off to people. Her smile just lights up the room.
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| Enjoying Grandpa |
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| Playing with Aunt Jackie |
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| Kisses from Grandma |
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| Uncle Dave and Aunt Marie |
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| Nicole and her Cousin Drew |
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